I posted this last year, but I feel that it bears repeating
Stop Saying "HAPPY Memorial Day"
By Jeff Seeber
I hope I live long enough to be able to get through the month of May just once without some moron sending me a
Happy Memorial Day e-mail or hearing some idiot wishing people a
Happy Memorial Day.
It's bad enough I'm reminded every May and every November that very few
Americans know the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day, but
expecting me to remain silent about the growing trend to turn Memorial
Day into some sort of celebration is asking
too much. I usually chagrin and bear it, but I'm getting too old to
care who I piss off from one day to the next, so if you're one of those
fools who sends me a
Happy Memorial Day e-mail or wishes people a
Happy Memorial Day, listen up!
There is nothing
Happy about Memorial Day. That's why it's
called M-e-m-o-r-i-a-l Day! Memorial Day is to be commemorated, not
celebrated. Memorial Day is supposed to be a day of quiet reflection,
remembrance, tribute and rendering honors to those
who have given their lives ensuring you nitwits can have the freedom to
be able to take full advantage of the rights their deaths secured for
you, one of which is the freedom to make ignorant statements like
Happy Memorial Day.
Believe it or not, Memorial Day was not placed on calendars to remind
you that summer has officially begun. Memorial Day is not the first day
of
Get Drunk While Pretending To Be An Outdoorsman At Your Cabin season. Memorial Day was not created by General Motors so their dealerships could have a
Three-Day Used Car Clearance Blowout. Memorial Day is not intended to be the first day of
National Burn That Burger Month.
Memorial Day is supposed to be commemorated on May 30th ... not May
28th, May 29th or May 31st. It makes no difference what day of the week
the 30th falls, that's when Memorial Day is supposed to be observed.
However, the United States Congress changed the
date in 1971 to the last Monday in May to give Americans yet another
3-day weekend. After all, what's more important ... one-hundred-plus
years of American tradition or giving Americans one more 3-day weekend
to have a few brewskis while driving to see Yellowstone
with the wife and kids?
The National Moment of Remembrance was started to encourage all
Americans to pause wherever they are at 3 p.m. local time on Memorial
Day for a minute of silence to remember and honor those who have died in
service to the nation. Of course, it's been a dismal
failure. I mean, c'mon, you expect Americans to pause for an ENTIRE
MINUTE to remember those who died serving the people who are too busy to
pause for ONE ENTIRE MINUTE?
Are you nuts?
It's bad enough American Civics is no longer taught in American schools.
It's bad enough most Americans ignore Armed Forces Day. It's bad enough
that very few civilians know that May is National Military Family
Appreciation Month. It's bad enough few Americans
understand that Veterans Day is now intended to honor all those who
have worn a uniform serving in this nation's Military, especially those
still living. But it's pitiful that most Americans can't seem to
comprehend that Memorial Day is the one day a year
when we are asked to remember those who gave their lives for this
country.
Let me repeat that ...
they gave their LIVES. Most of them were
teenagers or in their twenties. Many of them left behind a spouse after
being married for a very short period of time. Some of them left behind
infant children who grew up never knowing
one of the two people who brought them into this world with the good
fortune of being born a free person. All of them had plans for a full
and long life, but they interrupted those plans because they knew that
serving their country, and the risks that commitment
entails, was more important than life itself.
Their dreams and their expectations ended suddenly on a battlefield in
some foreign land, or in a training accident at home or abroad, or
during a secret mission to ensure this country is not attacked without
warning. Some of them are buried in unmarked graves
on foreign soil or rest forever in the sea. Some became missing in the
fog of war and will never be accounted for.
Is it too much to ask that Americans pause for one day every year to
recognize those who gave the last full measure of devotion? Are we as a
nation so selfish, so lazy, so ignorant of the reality of the price of
freedom, that we can't set aside even one day
to acknowledge the sacrifice of each and every one of our honorable
dead? Apparently it is too much to ask. Apparently expecting Americans
to relinquish even one day of basking in the sun while swilling beer is
too much of an imposition. Let's face it, most
Americans prefer a
Happy Memorial Day.
For those of us who served, and for the families and friends of those
who gave their lives, Memorial Day will always be the one day a year
when we
publicly honor our buddies, our brothers, our sisters, our sons,
our daughters, our fathers, our mothers, our nieces and nephews, our
cousins ... all those who perished, their young lives cut short, while
serving America ... while fighting next to us
... while protecting you. The rest of the year, we remember them in
private. We remember them daily. We will never forget them.
To simplify all of this:
Armed forces Day, the third Saturday of May and it honors those serving.
Memorial Day, Last Monday in May and it honors those that died while serving
Veterans Day, November 11 and it honors those who served.
From Mike in 2017:
I would like to add to this, that To remember is why hundreds of thousands of bikers, many, many of them vets, ride to The Wall each Memorial Day in what is called "Rolling Thunder." They are riding today, the 29th and I hope to be among them, but if I cannot, I will certainly be with them in spirit, memorializing the 59, 315* names on The Wall.
Next time we will return to California, so meet me there at 9:00am on the 3rd of June.
To see memorials from any state, click on the state name on the left side of this page.
Since I wrote the above a few days ago, I spoke to the folks at the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund, the folks who built and maintain The Wall. They told me that three more names have been added this May, bringing the new total to 58,318.
Once again, I wonder, are these the last?
These new additions are:
- Kenneth R. McGuire; CPL, USMC; Rib Lake, Wisc.; Panel 34W, Line 42
- John T. Whitson; SGT, USA; Huntsville, Texas; Panel 32W, Line 58
- Edward L. Wilmers; SGT, USA; Lapeer, Mich.; Panel 62E, Line 7
Rest in peace, brothers.
Next time, something a little different, a plea for your help. Check back on June 3rd for more.
To see memorials from any state, click the state name on the left side of this page.